Here is the last shooting photo made with RENAUD CLOKEUR, talented photographer. His idea is to create a project about portraits of different mistresses. After, he will make exhibition and sale his wonderful work.
I have been proud of being one of his models. Good luck to you Renaud!!
DESCRYPTION OF ABNORMAL SEXUAL PRACTICES
To break the monotony of the couple, sadomasochism and swinging out of the shadows. To learn more about these practices once taboo, Associate Professor of Sociology at the University of Toulouse and specialist in social construction of sexuality.
While the visual codes of swinging and masochism invade the small screen and advertisements, they concern many people?
These practices more and more people. Additionally some extension fantasies, couples now have the opportunity “to go.” While a few years ago, Swingers was practiced by some tribes and remained a very closed environment, there is now the opportunity for all through the door of a club.
This does not even touch all social classes but tends to democratize. Thus, it is known that at the end of some union congress in Paris, some colleagues go to swingers clubs, as before they would “go to whores.”
Features are we today proportions of French followers Swinger?
The latest figures from the national survey on sexuality French dates from 1992: a time when the phenomenon was almost clandestine and was facing underreporting related methodology (interview by phone ) .drop-off window Judging by the surveys we conducted in our research unit there are 5 or 6 years, I estimated that 300 to 400 000 swingers in France. If we include couples who go to see when we can easily double these figures.
What are the motivations of these couples?
They are many: breaking the monotony of the couple, to please his partner, having fun together, do not do as mom and dad, go, etc. In fact, the same intentions are different according to one or both partners. For the first step, men often want to associate their (or) woman sexual fantasies and these tend to want to please them.
Do we hear that despite the sexual freedom image surrounding these practices, it is a macho environment?
Yes, it remains macho environment which breeds mainly some pictures porn. The codes of swinging are female: the woman should be available to look and desire. Miniskirt, sexy neckline … she should display the look of a woman be the first to male fantasies. Thus, it is not uncommon for this atmosphere causes dissatisfaction of some, who feel that the atmosphere is not for them.
How to define fetish?
We can talk about fetishism when sexual practices are associated with the look or whether tangible or details are attached to objects. Fetishisms are numerous and assume forms that differ in the world according to culture. In France, the fetishistic practices are derived from the SM practices found in specific areas which are now broadcast in a larger population.
What are the most common forms of fetishism?
All cultures have their own form of fetishism. In Brazil, for example, is the ankle that will host all the fantasies. Thus, according to history and culture, erotic investments will be different and will head to various body parts. To illustrate this, we may mention Playboy magazine who changes his photos in the country in which it is broadcast.
What are its origins (childhood trauma …)? Can we speak of perversion?
Without going into the field of psychology, I do not think we can talk about the trauma of fetishism. Men were always taught to build their sexuality in a more or less standardized manner, whether to love the buttocks or breasts.
There has always been a kind of prompt moral perversion league to qualify any practice does not lead to reproduction. More humanity emerges, the more it diversifies its practices while it tries to exercise control over it.
Today, sexual practices tend toward a massive diversification, as people turn they in greater numbers to fetishism. In some circles, people aestheticize eroticism, focus on details, and fetishism is thus associated with outfits, to appear. With the desecration of sexuality, it became a game of territory more ordinary. Fetish practices are more in vogue, resulting once again social control although there is clearly towards more tolerance.
The fetishistic imagery seems to have democratised (in advertisements, movies, etc.). How to explain such a trend?
Advertising and the creation typically do but follow social practices that develop. There have always been movies featuring fetish practices, the difference is that today they are more accessible to the general public.
The wave of porno chic visible in advertising often claims of fetishism and addresses of the various social environments while previously reserved for so-called upper social classes. The development of sex shops also contributed to this democratization. Today, everything very quickly, and thus noticed an extreme diversity of forms of eroticism whose fetish is part.
The objects of fetish
The fetishistic imagery appears everywhere and stamped assemblies “fetish” are multiplying around the world. What are the most common fetishes? How do artists and advertising people have they taken upon themselves the symbols of a world once reserved for a circle of insiders?
Unable to establish a list of the different fetishes as they are numerous and sometimes shifted. Doctissimo presents the most frequent.
Objects, icons and fetish imagery
Objects, icons and fetish imagery may be a material (leather, latex, fishnet, vinyl), part of the body (legs, breasts), object (shoes, pantyhose, high heels) , underwear (panties, garter belt) or clothing (uniforms, corsets). There is also the fetish glasses, the color of the hair, especially that of physics (round or very thin women contrary, pregnant women), fetishism disability, smells (good or bad), and some can be particularly surprising for the uninitiated: fetish smoking, urine, socks, needles, etc.
It may well include some of the most common, the Retifism which is fetish footwear, altocalciphilie, fetish heels or doraphilie for latex materials, leather, rubber … One of the most exotic is the plushophilie, which is the fetish fluff.
Fetishism in the media
But fetishism quickly spread beyond the circle of the few followers.
Many photographers (Christophe Mourthé, Ludovic Goubet, Robert Chouraqui), designers (Katja Ehrhardt and latex dolls, Patrice Catanzaro and leather corsets) and cartoonists are illustrated by staging fetishistic imagery in their works and achievements .dropoff window
Advertisers do not have them missed the mark and have understood that without seduce fetish performances are what attract the public eye and challenge with images of increasingly daring.
The cinema has not hesitated to endorse fetish icons include Matrix and its heroes in combination of leather, Barb Wire embodied by Pamela Anderson in total vinyl look, Catwoman, etc.
Stars have also understood the impact that could have on their fetish imagery public and gratify us regularly held that under no circumstances would indicate in the evening in the strict dress code. And Tina Turner, Samantha Fox, Meg Ryan, Beyonce or Shakira all have in their wardrobe perfect fetish range and do not miss an opportunity to share with their fans.
As for literature, the authors are not far behind. Thus, there are many books about fetishism. Lovers of beautiful legs affectionneront and “Legs women pictures” with Roger Viollet Editions, feet enthusiasts will love “The fetishism of the foot,” the Parkstone Publishing (Temptation collection), and all will enjoy “The fetish art” of the now famous Dita Von Teese.
Essential of fetish
Long considered a perversion, pathological deviance or even a disease, fetishism has now become a fad; but are actually his followers? Really means that word often used indiscriminately? Where he originated? Let the point.
Originally, the term “fetish” (the Portuguese “feitiço” artificial, spell, word derived from the Latin “facticius” fate) denotes a religious practice of worshiping a fetish, an object of worship. But sexology and in common parlance, the word has taken a whole new meaning …
A short history of fetish
Fetish This is between the nineteenth and twentieth century sexology takes the word then refers to being sexually aroused by an object, material or a particular situation. The term is used for the first time by a French psychologist Alfred Binet in 1887. At the time regarded as a pathological perversion, fetishism, according to him, originated an association made between an inanimate object and a trauma occurred childhood.
It is then Magnus Hirschfeld, sexologist, which will first highlight the fact that we all have, to varying degrees of fetishism as a preference, even if they can not be systematically categorised perversions.
In 1927, Freud published his famous Fetichismus, and so introduced the term in everyday language. For him, fetishism is closely linked to the fear of castration and so when the child discovers that his mother has no penis. Note that Freud here totally exclude women from his theory …
Then come the report Kinsey, the starting point of sexual liberation, in which the eponymous sexologist differentiates fetishism and paraphilia (or sexual perversion).
Definition of fetishism
Fetishism is no longer considered a dangerous and pathological deviance. This is no longer the excitement caused by the fetish that is problematic, but the suffering and difficulties in everyday life it can cause.
So to summarize, how to set the fetishism? Psychiatry used to diagnose the two main axes. Thus says the one who Fetish:
Fantasy about an unusual subject for at least 6 months;
Sees its social and / or professional disturbed by this attraction.
But beware: the treatment is not mandatory unless the person suffers. The therapist will be able to propose two alternatives: cognitive therapy that will influence the behavior of the patient, or psychotherapy that will attempt to highlight the original trauma.
Today, the middle fetish and sadomasochism (SM) tend to overlap and there are many evenings where fans meet and compete in originality in choosing their outfits. The regulars of the scene called “fetish” and familiar with the famous Night Elastic organised once a month to Lechapelais Caves in Paris la Nuit Demonia, meeting place of the most unbridled fetish or the Fetish Weekend brings together each year in Montreal, renowned artists and passionate anonymous.